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De ce te urasti?

RO:

De ce te urasti? De ce iti urasti corpul, atitudinea sau reactiile tale?
De ce spui ca nasul tau e prea mare? Ca esti prea scunda? Ca ai degetele ciudate si buze prea mici. De ce?

Nu iti place doar din cauza ca te-ai uitat in acea revista, la acea poza, la acel film si ai vazut-o pe ea “perfecta”? Ai crezut ca e perfecta deoarece te-ai uitat exact la ce credeai ca iti lipseste tie. Te-ai uitat, pierzand din vedere idea ca in spatele acelei poze, acelui film etc. stau ore intregi de munca, sala, mese nemancate si sa nu uitam, machiaje si edit.

Societatea uita sa iti spuna ca frumusetea are pretul ei.

Ti-ai fi dorit sa arati ca si acea colega de clasa pe care o admira toata lumea- in special baietii. Dar nu deschizi ochii sa vezi de cate ori a suferit sau a plans pentru ei si din cauza lor.

De ce te urasti? Ti-ai pus vreodata intrebarea asta intr-un mod foarte serios?

Meriti tu, merita corpul tau sentimente de acest fel?

Da, poate ai avut o atitudine nepotrivita fata de prietena ta acum cateva zile si simti sa te urasti deoarece parea ca va-ti distrus prietenia din cauza reactiei tale. Sau ti-ai mintit parintii, iar acum te invinovatesti pentru asta.
Te urasti pentru acele greseli si pui atata energie in sentimentele acestea incat uiti sa te gandesti ca poti sa te corectezi! Ca poti incerca din nou si din nou sa te schimbi pana iti iese.

Toti suntem cu probleme, toti gresim si avem sute de defecte. Nu cumva sa crezi ca cineva e scutit. Insta cu toate acestea invatam sa ne iubim si sa ne acceptam asa cum suntem.

Niciodata nu vei fi perfecta si crede-ma nu ai nevoie sa fi. Perfectionismul e plictisitor.

Insa ce poti face e sa scoti ce e mai bun din ceea ce ai azi, acum.

Poti sa incepi sa iti iubesti defectele si sa nu crezi ca daca nu esti cautata de nici un baiat, esti neinteresanta. Nu e deloc asa!!
Tu invata sa te iubesti si toti din jur te vor iubi la randul lor. Exact asa cum esti si ce vrei sa devi.
Fii puternica, doar asa vei reusi.
Si nu uita, ce simti aceea si atragi. Daca te respingi pe tine si oamenii te vor respinge. Daca te urasti, si oamenii te vor detesta. Dar daca te iubesti si te respecti si ei vor face exact acelasi lucru.

Iubeste-te! Meriti asta

EN:

Why do you hate yourself?

Why do you hate your body shape, your attitudes, and all your reactions?

Why do you say your nose is too big? that you’re too short? That your fingers are looking weird and your lips are too small. Why?

You don’t like them just because you looked in that magazine, to that picture, to that movie and you saw her “perfect looking”?

You thought she is perfect because you looked exactly to those parts that you think you don’t have. You looked, without thinking that behind that picture, that movie etc. are plenty of hours of work, gym, missed meals and let’s don’t forget, lots of makeup and edit.

Our society doesn’t tell us that the beauty has its own price.

You wished to look like your classmate. The one which everyone adores, especially boys. But you don’t open your eyes to see how much she suffered and cried because of them.

Why do you hate yourself? Can you ask yourself this question in a very serious way? Do you deserve, does your body deserve these feelings?

Yes, maybe you had a bad attitude towards your best friends a few days ago and you feel like hating yourself. Because of your temper, you destroyed your friendship. Or you lied to your parents and you blame yourself again.

You hate yourself for this mistakes you’ve made and you put so much energy in this feeling that you totally forget to think that you can change it! That YOU CAN try again and again until you change it.

You will never be perfect, and believe me, you don’t need to be. Perfect is boring.

But what you can do is make the best out of what you have today, now!

We all have problems, we all make mistakes and we have so many defects. Don’t believe that someone doesn’t. But still, we’re learning to love ourselves and accept the way we look without wanting to change it.

You can start loving yourself and don’t believe that if any guy isn’t looking for your attention, you’re not interesting. NO, IT’S NOT LIKE THAT.

You just have to learn to love yourself and the people around you will do the same thing. Exactly the way you are and what you want to become.
Be strong, this is the only way you will make it.

And don’t forget, what you feel and believe you attract.

If you reject yourself, people will do the same with you. If you hate yourself, people will feel the same. But if you love and respect yourself, they will do exactly the same thing.

LOVE YOURSELF! YOU DESERVE THAT!


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